As odd as it may seem from your perspective, there are many seasoned Linux users who consider both of those as major strengths for Linux, not obstacles. I like having lots of options to choose from, and tend to use the command line more and more as I go forward using Linux. The best way to not let all that drag you down is to pick a popular distro for new Linux users (any of the top 3 or 4), then just forget about all the others until you are totally ready to try another, and of course leave the command line stuff be until you have some experience under your belt.

