Hey, had my config working, then my friend had me change a few things trying to get squrrielmail to work right, and now no matter what email client i use, i get <Server replied: 554 <me@mydomain.com>: Relay access denied>

Postfix main.cf:

# See /usr/share/postfix/main.cf.dist for a commented, more complete version

smtpd_banner = $myhostname ESMTP $mail_name (Debian/GNU)
biff = no

# appending .domain is the MUA's job.
append_dot_mydomain = no


# Uncomment the next line to generate "delayed mail" warnings
#delay_warning_time = 4h

mydomain = gaminggods.net
myhostname = mail
alias_maps = hash:/etc/aliases
myorigin = $mydomain
mynetworks = 127.0.0.0/8 192.168.1.2 65.25.181.251 192.168.1.0/24
mydestination = $myhostname $mydomain localhost.$mydomain localhost www.$mydomain ftp.$mydomain
mailbox_command = procmail -a "$EXTENSION"
mailbox_size_limit = 0
recipient_delimiter = +
proxy_interfaces = 65.25.181.251
smtpd_recipient_restrictions = reject_unauth_destination permit_mynetworks
#relayhost = relayhost
inet_interfaces = all

ive kinda been adding and commenting a bit trying to get it to let me relay, but no go.

mail.log:

Aug 8 08:52:25 epsilon postfix/smtpd[6783]: NOQUEUE: reject: RCPT from epsilon.mydomain.com[127.0.0.1]: 554 <me@externaldomain.com>: Relay access denied; from=<me@mydomain.com> to=<me@externaldomain.com> proto=ESMTP helo=<server.mydomain.com>


if i send an email to myself inside the domain, it works.. only when i try to relay to any other domain does it not..

Debian 3.1 Sarge / Postfix 2.1.5
and yes, i restarted postfix in between changes