Most if not all the distro's you mention are heavy weights.
I've installed Vector once on a machine like yours, over a Win2000 install. Vector ran pretty good. Vector uses it's own wireless setup&configure tools. And although I've never tried it myself, I know setting up ndiswrapper is among the options.
Also, the free as in beer edition uses xfce, which is not dissimilar to the Redmond interface. In fact, many people don't even notice the difference

But appearances can be deceiving, because there is difference... oh yeah
One other plus is that all multimedia codexes ship with the OS.