Sat the resolution down to 1680x1050 and forced the DPI to 120 and now everything are inside my monitor. + The fronts are also down now, not so insanly big.
So it "works" now, just a huge downgrade to swallow witch i will never accept :P
guess the only downgrade I will take is going from Win8 to Win7 as the bitter truth.
Than you for the help and it's sad. since I was really ready for going into mint :P
Maybe another year!
Had most of the problems solved here in the end but two things were bugging me.
1. I could not use my max resolution, and overscan with nvidia is a nightmare for a novice in linux like me. I googled, read for 2 hours and got dumber.
2. in the "working" setup i did install wine and tried my favourite game World of Warcraft, had record low FPS at 1..
guess i can try again when windows 9 comes out. prolly got some "working" hardware by then. :P