I have three pc's, one running xp pro, one running fc4 and the other multibooting linux and windows. The problem is that I can't get vnc up and running. I can ssh into my fc4 machine, that's the one I'm setting up as a server but I don't have a monitor attached so I have to remote into it to do anything, but without a desktop I'm a little lost.
When I run vncviewer I keep getting a connection refused message. I have disabled the firewall with the same result.
Can someone please tell me what I need to do, or at least where to look, to get this thing running a remote desktop?
(My wife has been hijacking my pc to play games and I want to set it up so she can play games on linux through her windows pc)

Sorry if this is a little garbled.