accessdb in sendmail!!

[nikhil]

guys i'm really stuck, any help is appreciated!!!

i added my host ip in the access and relay-domains file but i'm still getting the relay denied message, do we hv to modify the sendmail.mc file so that sendmail reads access.db and relay-domains file?
this is what my access and relay domain looks like:
localhost.localdomain RELAY
localhost RELAY
127.0.0.1 RELAY
nikhil@stanelec.dyndns.org RELAY
nikhil@192.168.0.101 RELAY
192.168.0.101 RELAY

none of the above works...relay-domains has:
192.168.0.101 ( this is the host from which i'm trying to send out mails)
192.168.0.102 - this is the email server. i can send out email messages from the 102 but not from 101,i dont know wat i'm doin wrong!!

any help is greatly appreciated!!!

[nikhil]

one more question...does sendmail read the file relay-domains automatically
on startup or do we need to specify any directive in sendmail.mc which tells it to read the relay-domains file? somehow none of my entries in either relay-domains or access are getting executed.