VDS/VPS security and monitoring problems

[eugene2006]

There is VDS/VPS (VIRTUAL PRIVATE DEDICATED SERVER) 2 GHZ 1 GB RAM,
WINDOWS 2003, APACHE 2.2.3 + PHP 5.2
VIRTUOZZO, NO PLESK (changed to XAMPP )

I've tried to install Antivirus DRWEB, NOD32 and many others. But all they failed to monitor on run-time.
For now I've been using ClamAV but it does not monitor neither

Any AV that might fully work on VDS?
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Also my concern is hackers, DDOS, brute forcing and so on…
Is there any Anti Hacker Software for Windows 2003?
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I’ve tried lots of Traffic Analyzing Software but all they failed as well since there is no hardware or virtual network card detected on Windows 2003 VDS/VPS…
How to analyze incoming HTTP HTTPS traffic – I am really interested in what’s going on my VDS

Thanks for support!

[sin@evilson]

Wow! eugene2006 When I logged into my favorite new place this morning http://www.linuxforums.org I could have sworn that I have found a place to talk about LINUX and not Microshaft products. hrmmm. Maybe I'm still sleeping and this is not really happening, its merely a bad dream. Make it stop! Make it stop!