Need help trouble shooting email server setup
I am trying to setup an email server on my home server. It is running Debian Etch with Exim4 and Dovecot.
I "think" that the configuration is done properly, but I can't seem to get any mail. I think the issue might be with my domain and the MX records, but I am not sure. I don't see any errors in my log files so at this point I don't even think the mail is getting to my machine.
Here is the error I get from the bounced message:
My domain is with Godaddy and here are some relevant items from my records there:
This message was created automatically by mail delivery software.
A message that you sent could not be delivered to one or more of its
recipients. This is a permanent error. The following address(es) failed: firstname.lastname@example.org
SMTP error from remote mail server after RCPT TO:<email@example.com>:
host smtp.where.secureserver.net [xxx.xxx.xx.xxx]:
553 sorry, relaying denied from your location [xxx.xxx.xx.xxx] (#5.7.1)
1. MX Records:
www. bonneycpa.com which points to myipaddress to my router (this is a static ip)
2. A Host Record is @ and again points to my ip address of my router.
3. I have various CNames such as mail, pop, smtp all of which point to "name".secureserver.net name being mail, pop, smtp etc.
My web traffic is going to the server just fine. I can ssh into my server using bonneycpa.com just fine. As I indicated, I think the first issue I am having is that the mail is not evening getting to my box. Does anyone have any suggestions?